Category: Dating and Relationships
Do you remember your first love? I fell in love for the first time when I was twelve. I loved him for 3 years. He never knew it.
To be honest don't think that day has come. . Yup think im still waiting.
Yes I remember the first time I fell in love. It scraped up my knees and the palms of my hands from trying to catch myself and break the fall. I almost drowned in it. It covered my mouth, and nose, and face. I struggled against it and fought with all my strength. The more I fought, the tighter the hold it had on me. Then all of a sudden when I thought I was licked, Just when I thought it was all over and I was about to give in to the somewhat warm but terrifyingly dizzying sensation of being powerless even to breathe, love released itself, and I found myself battle scarred but alive. I woke as if in a dream, feeling as if I had been expelled like puss from a black head on someone's face. My memory of the past events were hazy at best, but sort of gratifying. Falling into love is like holding the tail of the tiger. We've all heard this one. I held on to the tail, but forgot that the beast had teeth and claws. Or maybe, just maybe, it was all a dream, in fact it was it that had me.
Lap it up-
Nem
Does first crush count? I remember mine...to well. I was about 13 and I fell in crush with this guy I met through my radio station where I work. I can't really say it was love, cause he didn't love me back. The first guy I actually "fell in love with" turned out to be a fence jumpper, [gay], and was just using me, cause he "just wanted to kno what it was like with a woman". Now, I'm completely in love, and I have to say, that, this relationship is better, cause Johnny aka Sudzy and I love each other soooo much.
btw, the "fence jumper" remark was something the guy said to me.
I was 15, it was in Italy, and I was completely gone. Her name was Petra and she was a gorgeous beautiful person.
had a couple of loves that i will never forget, i don't really remember the first, probley because i was just being used, but, ya have enough scars for this life time
The first time I thought I was in love: I was in sixth grade, and it lasted until the end of the ninth. He was perfect in every way possible, except for the ways in which he wasn't. He gave me butterflies and I sat next to him in band and he patronized the hell out of me.
The first time I really was in love (yeah, I'm only seventeen, bite me): He was nowhere near perfect, and there were times when I thought I hated him. He drank too much, smoked too many cigarettes, got into fights and had a serious temper problem. Our relationship was complicated, but he never loved me, at least not romantically. I did a lot of things for and with him that I now seriously regret, but I still think he was worth it.
I did not write this post. Someone got my password and has taken over my identity. Mmhmm.
I think i'm in love rite now, but he doesn't know it...we're really good friends though, but it kills me when we get off the phone, say goodbye at school...evry guy before him was just an infatuation and i don't know if it'll ever happen for us anyways because 1. he's going to university next year,
2. i'm moving to texas in the summer
3. i don't know if he wants to be with me because of the whole being blind thing or just because. But i know no other girl could love him as much as I do, I'd o anything to make him happy.
*do anything
Yes. I remember the first time I fell in love. I have loved many people. I have cared about them deeply as friends and then grown to love them as friends. I once mistook that sort of love for the kind one falls into, but now I know the difference. Falling in love is tarifying, amazing, frightening, thrilling, really scarry and kind of fun. I will never forget the first time I fell in love, or the first man I ever truly fell in love with.
oh yes, the first time I looked at myself in the mirror, lol!
oh wait, I've never looked at myself in the mirror ...
lmao! love it sugarbaby. love = garbage these days!
Anyone know the song "Why They Call It Falling" by Leanne Womack? Well, I think that's a lot like what my first love was like. I really did fall. We had our good times together, but for the most part, I never want to speak to him or interact with him in any way again.
Sounds like my ex, and the guy that I talked about before...the gay one.
Well, I guess love is a universal thing. What am I saying, of course it is. I wouldn't mind finding someone special now. My previous experience for the past 3 years, is finding someone I could fall for, and the object of my undying love and supernal devotion loves someone else, or can't get over Miss perfect from the past. Hmm. Wonder why I never was Miss perfect from someone's past? Keep on rocking DL
You bet I remember falling in love for the first time, it was like being run over by a mac truck; I was not the person I had been, I was obsessed, single-minded and it all revolved around that other person. I would have done anything they wanted me too; anything at all.
Unfortunately, the person didn't know I existed, and the state I was in couldn't be maintained forever, and I finally admitted that though I was in love, they weren't. I was devistated.
Sometimes, though, you fall in love with them; they fall in love with you; and the rest of the world be damned. Then it's great.
Bob
love is just a good filling and u no when u are in love.
i fell so good noing a girl loves me
love is just a good filling and u no when u are in love.
i fell so good noing a girl loves me
Do you think falling in love is different the older you get? I believe people change, but their feelings of love are the same. You see that special person, your heart flutters, you have butterflies in your stomach. So, do you think falling in love stays the same? D L
every love for me has been different,
First of all, how do you know you weren't someone's miss perfect from a previous relationship? Maybe you just aren't aware of it. You never know after all. Do I think falling in love changes over time? Yes, of course, we constantly change and grow, and so does our love. It's always the same basic, wonderful and scary emotion, but how we view it, how we handle it and even how we experience it changes over the course of our lives. Oh, and someone mentioned being obsessed? Yeah, I guess that a little bit of natural and quasi-healthy obsession is part of falling in love. You find your self thinking about them all of the time. You worry about how they are doing when you haven't talked to them lately, even if it's only been a matter of ten or fifteen hours since you last spoke. You fantasize about them constantly and you find your self incorperating them into songs, poems and stories, while you seem to find them in every song you hear on the radio and every TV show you watch. In short. I don't think that a little obsession at the beginning of a relationship is a bad thing. It's all part of being head-over-heals in love with someone.
Actually, I just call that missing the person your in love with. Obbseshon isn't really good for anyone, cause it can grow from just missing and loving someone, to just wanting to control them and who they talk to, who they see, where they go, etc. I'm not saying that it's not okay, but there comes a point where it has to stop, both for the people involved, and for the relationship to be able to survive.
Well, obviously, we're not talking about being clinically obssessed here. But one of the aspects of truly falling in love is a mild, quasi-rational obsession with the one you have fallen in love with. That certainly wouldn't last for the entire duration of a love, but would be present at the beginning of a relationship. The idea of falling in love is far different from the idea of being in love with someone, which is far different from loving someone.
I remembered the first time i fell in love. It was during my first year in high school. It was with one my close friends from the Philippines and my feelings for him lasted for four years. I told him about it when i was already here in the U S, so, we never got it together. We never became a couple, but were still friends up to now.
I yes indeed remember the first time i fell inlove, it was in the 6th grade, i was dating a junior in highschool, he's name was Scott Hicks, we dated for about 4 months, but dering that time he was cheeting on me with not only my BFF, but a doesn ohter girls, then he brake s up wid me at my Birthday party. and yes to this day i still remember him. its been 1 year sinse the brake up. and it still herts to think about him. that's one of thoghs relationships wair u dont want to remember it, but you still do..
Oh, Morg. That sucks. I have a similar experience. I started dating a sophmore in high school when I was in 7th grade. He didn't want me to tell anyone we were dating, but I told my best friend. Well, 6 months later, I found out he was cheating on me and I broke up with him. Then about 3 months later, he said he was single and we dated again for 2 months, and we broke up again cause of course he was cheating with the same person. After that, I still say once a cheater, always a cheater.
What Blbobby said in post 17 is how my first quote-love-quote was for me. Similar to Queen Lioness's experience, maybe? I was 17, and the guy was 35 and worked at, where else?-a radio station.
I was regularly euphoric, then plunged into depressions, and I hope never to go through such again. I know everyone does, it's not unique. I avoided getting too involved in new friendships, to sit home hoping he would call. Pathetic! This man really strung me along, emotionally, for about three years, even after he married someone else. He knew exactly what he was doing, what effect he had on me. I think he enjoyed being adored that much. He once told me, near the end of the time we were speaking, that "You just don't marry a blind girl." Now, I understand that a person may feel this way, but it's wrong and cruel to say that to someone, and to hurt someone that way at what is essentially the start of their adult life, when they're already a bit insecure, and trying to figure out who they are.
I have no wish ever to speak to him again, and am happy to say that aside from a little irritation whenever I think of him, I now feel nothing. I would never have believed during the time I was suffering through that, that a day would come when I would feel free of those strong emotions. Thank God!
Yes, I do remember the first time I fell, and it was hard and fast!!!!!
I’m still in love with him, but he doesn’t know it, and it’s been dead and gone for some time now, but I’m thankfull, and was blessed to have him in my life for such a brief period!!!!
You should know who you are!!!!?
Thank you for all you gave
I remember "falling in love" plenty of times.
What a joke!
I've only ever been properly in love once, and that's right now. It took me till 23 to realise that all the other attractions to girls in the past ... all of maybe 3 or 4 of them, lol, were nothing more than just a school boy crush.
Oh come on lol.
Yeh, that was pretty lame!!!!
Jkjkjk
I know this is a first time falling in love type of board, but in sted of amking a newone, i just thoght i talk about the second time I fell inlove,
it only lasted a month. but during that time, it was wonderful. me and this person, just started talking again, it's kind of been like a love hate relationship with us for some time now. but i am thankful that we are at least friends.
You know who you are, and thank you for all that you gave me!
Thank you for just everything. Helping me thure so much, means a lot to me to this day. You'll allways have a special part in me.
Morgan
We've all had our crushes and what not, theres a clear line between a crush and falling ass backwords in love. My first fall into love was the biggest learning experiance of my life. Its funny just how much you learn about your self when you love someone else. Took me a while to get over the break up but Me and the person are still friends and that experiance never comes between us anymore. We just let it go and stuck with a just friends kind of thing.
oh, my, god! I remember perfectly the first time I fell in love! It was an awsome feeling! It was amazing, and I don't think there can ever be a feeling that compares to the first time you fall in love! I fell in love, and is still in love with ice cream! lol, yep, the first time i tasted it, it just blew me away! lol That's my experience with the first time falling in love! lol It didn't say with whom, and this board didn't specify that it had to be a person! lol so...there you go! lol
I thought I fell in love back in 1998, with a guy named Brent, but really, it was young puppy love. It didn't feel like it at the time, though. The first time I really did fall in love was in 2001, with a man named Ryan. We dated for two years, and I would have married him. I loved him with everything I was. However, things did not work out for various reasons, and we broke up. Thankfully we are still friends. I thought I'd never love again, but I was wrong. Looking back on Ryan and my time together, as much as I loved him, I wasn't ready for marriage at the time. Now, my love for Eddie is deep and real, and I'm more mature than I was when I dated Ryan.
the first time i fell in love was in 2002. i was dating a guy named juan. he was loving and caring at first, but then he would try to pressure me to do thins gs that i felt were uncomfortable. a few months later. he broke up with me. i thought i would never get over him, but in may of 2006, i fell in love with my current boyfriend eddie, and we're still together to this day, and i couldn't of been mor happy than i am now..
Yeah... I just realized within the year since I last posted that the first time I "Fell in love" was a fluke... Well, that, waht I posted about, was my first relationship. I fell in love when I was 14, and this is for real... since it hasn't gone away in 3 years, and even though my best friend is with someone else, I will proudly admit that I love him to death and I hope we can be together some day.
I remember the first time someone fell in love with me. It was not so fun. I remember avoiding him at all costs and wile doing so one time I got stuck and couldn't get unstuck. didn't want to scream and let him know where I was. I wasn't hurt or anything so just figured I would kick back and just wait till my mom started looking for me. 2 HOURS later here comes my mom, not alone of coarse with this kid. By this time I'm quite annoyed. First off because it took her two hours to come look for me, I mean granted I was a royal brat but damn. He went and got his dad and he and my mom got me unstuck. This little red head snot nose punk says do you need a hug? I rolled up my fist and punched him, then ran to the car and locked myself in while my mom apologized on my behalf lol. Now that I think back, a lot of boy got bloody noses when I was young lol. I guess I was just not the easiest catch haha.
Yeah, the first time I fell in love, I was 13, and that lasted for a year and a half. It was a good relationship, but I believe that first loves aren't meant to be because of your lack of experience. How can you find your soul mate if you only took the time to look at one person? I didn't think that at the time we broke up though. It took me a long time to get over him, mostly because I was an outcast in school and just wanted someone to care about me. After that I had a few relationships that I'm ashamed of to this day, one of which lead to me being stalked for 2 years, and no one would do anything about it, so one day I knocked him flat on his face and that set him straight. I still take every chance I get to insult him, just to show him I'm not vulnerable, because he insists on talking to me, and these stupid teachers, who love him because he's "so smart and perfect" which was the reason they wouldn't do anything when he stalked me, yell at me when I don't talk to him. (To clarify, I live in the dorm at my school, so I have to see him every day. Otherwise I would've taken out a restraining order by now.) But then last year I fell in love for real, and I know it's love because we've been through hell and back together. We've seen every last fault of each other and we're still together, that's love. We can talk about anything. So in my opinion, your first love is gonna be great, but don't count on it to last. Real love is the best, though, because that's what you'll get the most out of.
oh yes I remember... The first time I realy deeply fell in love was when I was 14 the previews doesn't cound that just where crushes or something, my first time I fell in love was with my best friend, but he didn't love me back...
The first time I fell in love ... Well, I was very naive back then. He basically left me in the cold, metaphoricaly speaking, after the pair of us had graduated from high school, after promissing we'd be abe to stay in touch wherever he went next. He e-mailed me a couple of times while I was away at guide dog school for the first time, but after that, we just drifted apart and lost touch. Now, after everything i went through with my first dog's cancer diagnosis, return to the school and retirement, and my depression, and struggles with guilt, i've broken up with him because of the lack of communication. There was no emotional support at all on his part. He has not even bothered to contact me.
I've found someone new, and things are going so much better. *smiles*
I fell in love when I was 17.
There will never be a nother girl like her.
I have dated some one elce aftir we broke up, but it was not the same, and it never will be.
I remember the first time I fell in love with someone. it was the best and the worst two years of my life. the first year was awesome, and everything went awesome. he'd be all romantic ans stuff, but then after that, he just started to be a big jackass. to me. I broke it off with him in 2006. It took me a year and a half to get over him finally, and I'm just fine now.!
lmao i love you kia
I remember my first time falling in love with a gal. We never dated. I was 13 and she was 17. We've always been friends til this day. Unfortunately for me she got married, but she will always hold a very special place in my heart.
hmm, I do remember the first time just like it was yesterday, granted that it was a couple of months ago. it was just something that I couldn't explain. the feelings I had for this person were so true. I would have done anything for her. but unfortunatly it ended, and we had moved on. but sometimes I kick back and think about how it would have been like if we were still together.
It was last year I was at the top of the world everything was gone it was just me and him he broke my heart and moved away but in my hreat I still love him but I dont know if he still loves me
Oh my gosh I do so remember the first time I ever say I fell in the truest deepest love. That was over 11 years ago, even though twe've made our mistakes and I do mean plenty, I do never think I'll be able to love like that again. Although I will try. It's amazing who the places in our hearts that people have still till this day, I'd drop the world for him... But we can never be togther and that's what i haveto understand, and not feel guilty if ever I get into another.
I guess it's ok to be in love with one more than one person at a time, just realize the love that you do have and move on to the best way you can.
Let me make clear that it's okay to be in love with more than one person but not cheat on them with them. There are many people we all can love. And the guy that said there will not be another girl like that howhe had fallen in love, i'l never find the same, but willing to try once I finish grieving... problem is that I felt guilty for loving others cuz of this last person... Well nough said.
I will always remeber the first time. It was to a girl in my high school whose name is Lisa. There is no single better feeling then that of love. Unfortunatly, she cheated on me right after high school, and wound up pregnant. That severly hurt me, and it still does to this day. I don't know but I had feeligns that she and I would get married and someday start a family
OK. i do kind of remember. when i did fall in love. smile. i was 17smile.
it lasted for 6 months.
it was good
tothis day. ido miss it. but i ammore. smile happy. my first love will have a place in my hart. smile. times. and ruff times as well.
but i miss
Absolutely agrees with post 22.
I remember the first time I thought I fell in love. I was 14. It was November of 2007. But he was doomed to break my heart, because he was in such a bad way. Eventually he forgot me. He forgot everything. It wasn't his fault. And I think that was more admiration and adoration than love in the sense we are discussing here, but still, I thought it was.
The first time I was in love and still think it was love, I was 15. I freaked out and fucked him over six months in to the relationship because I was feeling the same thing I'd mentioned before, but for a different person. I still thought it was love. If I hadn't been so stupid, I think I'd still be with who I was with at 15. I didn't cheat, but I ran away from both of them. Later, I was approached by both of them again, they didn't know it, and I ran off again. I know he would not have betrayed me, because I have watched what all his other relationships have shown him. *sighs* I'm a fuckwit. oh well.
the next time I fell in love, I got fucked over. That one still lies to me. I think he's convinced himself that he tells the truth. How damn sad. Karma's a bitch, ain't it?
Besides my wife I have had a few I fell in love with, enfact one of my x ladies is a zoner. Hmm.. a part of me will always have respect fore her no matter what and I wish her the best in life. :) Now I am married and love it. As for the person I spoke of, we were young, probly not really ready for the commitment that marriage brings.
I had a few first loves and two engagements out of those few but my third in engagment i married that one which all of u probally know I love being married it is the best thing i ever did
Hmmm, my first love was in 6th grade, so I must have been about 11 or 12. I really loved this kid, I mean it hurt I loved him so much. He was in 2 of my classes, including my orchestra class. He played the violin too, and that made me love him even more. I guess it was puppydog love looking back on it now, everyone has that. I never fell in love after that as a teenager. I ain't an easy lover at all. It takes a lot to get me to love you, I'm tough to break. But I had many crushes in high school. A drummer boy and a football player in freshman year, same guys plus another football player in sophmore year, and it just goes on from there. I fell in deep love a few years ago with a guy and I'm still madly in love with him now. SO YEAH, IT'S ALL GOOD. lol
The first time I fell in love was when I met my husband Bryan. We'll be married a year this April. Marriage is the best and as for lack of experience when falling in love for the first time I think it depends on the people involved. It depends on if you're older or younger how mature a person is in every area of their life.
I've to admit that I fell in love for the first time and that was a college library adventure. lol.
Raaj.